I admit that I am not an expert in terms of assessing a person. I always treat someone as my friend. I just place a gap if he or she treats me bad. The only thing I have to practice is not to put trust easily. It doesn’t mean that you have known each other for many years; it is a guarantee that all is well. I have many reservations and I do not want to label that my kind of friends in the company is the same with hubby.
Realizations on relationship were shown to me right before my eyes. It was last week that I feel sorry for hubby. I saw how frustrated he was. I saw them very close because they have known each other since he was young and at that instant, it changed. Why? Even me, I do not know.
When hubby shouts his friend’s name with excitement, I expect it will be a meeting of two people who misses each other’s arm. If loyalty is the reason that the latter treats him cold, I still do not understand. Is this really happening? Some is willing to burn bridges because hubby chooses the other way. The sad part is he is considered that he will understand the situation. Yes, he is the part of the so-called trusted friends of hubby and they are only two. Too bad, he changed it. Hubby was wrong. Well, that is life. We have to move on and accept that they are just friends because they are working before and nothing more. If he feels bad that hubby is above him, he must think that he is already successful because he has children who are all successful in their careers and we are still starting.
I do not know if my friends will act the same way with me when I decide to do the same with hubby. I hope I made the right choice. I want to prove what my godmother told me that they are all the same.