Happiness can exist only in acceptance.
Call it ironic, but it is fact. What we are now is the result of what we really wanted before. No one can be blamed except ourselves because it is the result of our decision.
I am surrounded with people who are tired, pissed-off and not happy anymore. Some wanted a bigger salary, but not happy with her environment and some are happy with the environment, but receives a meager salary just enough to sustain some needs. When hubby wanted a higher salary he already expects pressure. His expectation proved him right and you know what much more was given to him to handle. It was like managing all the farms of his previous company. Every time I ask him if he is okay or if he can handle the pressure, he will always tell me that the pressure he handles now is total package of his salary and for him it is all okay because he was able to finance what we need. It is his motivation that is why you will see him happy. On the other hand, some complain about their 6 digits salary with less output without realizing that someone is receiving less, but with more output in real life. Honestly, when I hear people who always complain I’ll just tell them to resign or better yet pursue what is on their minds what is the best is for them than talking to everybody of their miserable stay for years. It is really funny!